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Betrayal; healing Caregiver wounds (Part #1)
May 31, 2023

Betrayal; healing Caregiver wounds (Part #1)

This is part one of a two-part episode featuring my guest, Holli Kenely, a licensed therapist, author, and well-known expert on the subject of betrayal. While few caregivers want to discuss this topic, many of us suffer invi...

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Can Caregiver Stress Cause Memory Loss?
May 24, 2023

Can Caregiver Stress Cause Memory Loss?

This episode even caught me by surprise. In this segment, I dive into research about how the daily pressures of caregiving can take a serious toll on our own memory, and a few ways to manage stress better. While extreme …

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Tea on the Commode, Really Nancy?
May 17, 2023

Tea on the Commode, Really Nancy?

How do you cope with an aging mom? So many assume this is the eldest daughter’s job. However, when the one who steps in and steps up had to be a son, things might be different. What do you need …

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Is Mom and Dad's Money Safe?
May 10, 2023

Is Mom and Dad's Money Safe?

Concerned about recent bank financial failures? Your aging parent may be too, but they might not tell you. When you’re on a fixed or reduced income, every penny counts. In this episode, my guest, Philip Van Doorn from Marke...

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How to
May 3, 2023

How to "Un-Isolate" yourself

If you’re working full time but also caring for an aging parent, the stress and feeling of isolation can be significan t. Adding to that stress can be a fear (real or imagined) of potential retribution from your boss or …

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Are you more prepared as a second time caregiver?
April 26, 2023

Are you more prepared as a second time caregiver?

Being a caregiver has its joys and tough times, too. Sometimes we step into the role thinking that we are knowing what our job will be. But it’s hard to foresee how being a caregiver will interrupt our families, jobs, …

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ER Screw Ups: what should you watch out for?
April 19, 2023

ER Screw Ups: what should you watch out for?

What happens when you get a call from your dad who says: “ don’t worry, Mom’s just been taken to the ER ,” then hangs upon you? You’re 1200 miles away and on your way to work! The first you …

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When Alzheimer's is a Surprise!
April 12, 2023

When Alzheimer's is a Surprise!

What happens when your father, who appeared to be just fine, surprises you by telling you he has Alzheimer’s Disease? Watching anyone’s steady cognitive decline is always difficult. However, my next guest, Peter Maeck took, ...

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Senior Dumping and the GoDaddy Guy
April 5, 2023

Senior Dumping and the GoDaddy Guy

What’s Senior Dumping and can it happen to your parents without you even suspecting? In this episode, I share a conversation that I had with a GoDaddy customer service person who had this issue with his dad. While running f...

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A Message from Our Loved Ones Pt #2
March 29, 2023

A Message from Our Loved Ones Pt #2

Your parent or loved one has always been there for you but has now passed. Is there a way to still contact them? Knowing what to do might help you manage through some tough days a bit easier. How do …

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Who's Drugging Dad at the Care Home?
March 22, 2023

Who's Drugging Dad at the Care Home?

In this episode you might be surprised to learn how often chemical restraints are used on our folks to keep them calm, sleepy, and complacent, and easier to care for in hospitals, rehab facilities, nursing homes, and even in ...

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Messages from Your Loved Ones (Pt #1)
March 15, 2023

Messages from Your Loved Ones (Pt #1)

Can you still get support, guidance, and love from a parent, spouse, or even a family member that died before you were born? Turns out, that might be true if you know about how spiritual guides or mediums work. This …

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Lucky 7, Ways to Feel Better.
March 8, 2023

Lucky 7, Ways to Feel Better.

In this episode, we'll be discussing how to get rid of those crappy, crummy, pissy moods that can come with caring for an elderly parent. It's normal to feel overwhelmed, stressed, and frustrated when caring for someone you l...

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Final Words with the Wall Street Journal
March 1, 2023

Final Words with the Wall Street Journal

In this episode, my guest, James Hagerty, the Wall Street Journal Obituary writer , and I discuss how to capture the most interesting parts of our parents and loved ones’ life stories. Too often, those final days come about,...

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Get a 5 Year Old Care Advocate, NOW!
Feb. 22, 2023

Get a 5 Year Old Care Advocate, NOW!

In this episode, I share how even a whiny five-year-old can help us become better advocates and caregivers for those we love. It starts with one key question that adults often forget to ask, themselves. That simple question,...

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Tough Choices, Right Decisions, Every Day Counts!
Feb. 14, 2023

Tough Choices, Right Decisions, Every Day Counts!

What happens when the quality of care provided by your mom’s care facility was great, but then declined to a point where you’re worried that she’s suffering? Do you just suck it up and hope the quality of aides and …

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Surprising ways to find more strength.
Feb. 8, 2023

Surprising ways to find more strength.

Personal treasures or talismans have been used for a long time by caregivers, and those grieving, to reduce pain and stress. In this episode, I share a bit of history and some ways that you can use personal items to …

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Researching Hospitals to Get Better Care (Part #2)
Feb. 1, 2023

Researching Hospitals to Get Better Care (Part #2)

This episode is Part Two of my discussion with attorney Dan Frith. The quality of care our aging parents receive can vary by which hospital they use. The one closest to home might not be the safest, or even appropriate …

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Things You'll Need When Bringing Dad Home
Jan. 25, 2023

Things You'll Need When Bringing Dad Home

How do you prepare your home, or a parent’s home, so it’s safe for them to return to after a hospitalization or long-term rehab stay? They might have recovered, but the last thing you want is for another issue or …

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Due Diligence on MDs (Part #1)
Jan. 18, 2023

Due Diligence on MDs (Part #1)

In this episode, we discuss how to learn if your doctor is the right one for your parents, or you. Sometimes we base our trust on a doctor’s “likeability,” or bedside manner. But someone who seems good doesn’t mean they …

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Can You Predict Emergencies?
Jan. 11, 2023

Can You Predict Emergencies?

In this episode, I share some research done on the most challenging days of the week for those who care for an aging parent or spouse. From this, I learned that there really is an official calendar day called Blue …

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Disability and Caregiving
Jan. 4, 2023

Disability and Caregiving

What happens when you’re both a caregiver and, at the same, disabled yourself? In this episode my guest Daniel Hodges, JD, who is blind, was a caregiver for his parents and children while needing special care himself from ...

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Toxic People Who Hurt You
Dec. 28, 2022

Toxic People Who Hurt You

Caring for those we love is tough enough. When toxic people enter our lives wanting more of our time, attention, energy, and even money, offering nothing in return, they make caregiving even more difficult. In this episode, I...

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Caregiver Blues, How to Survive the Holidays
Dec. 21, 2022

Caregiver Blues, How to Survive the Holidays

In this episode, I share tips on how caregivers can overcome those holiday blues when you’re alone and away from those you love. The show mentions how to make your days brighter when you start feeling a little dark. Below …

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